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Denise B's avatar

Steve, your comment makes me so sad. My husband and I have been married for 35 years. Our sexual relationship separates our married relationship from all other close friendly and familial relationships. No one else knows us like we know each other. In addition, biology confirms God's design for sexual pleasure in marriage. The hormones released during sexual intimacy actually draw people closer together and strengthen their bonds. I am thankful for this article that helps women enjoy intimacy long into our golden years. Sexual pleasure isn't just for the guys. It also doesn't have to be any more addicting than a routine hearty breakfast.

Steve  Mitzner's avatar

I should think God made sex pleasurable to help promote making more babies! Using sex for fun and pleasure may be like how/ why dope addicts use drugs, I.e. to stimulate more pleasure? Sex addicts vs. dope addicts, what's the difference? One can live without dope or sex!

Just as the teacher who caught Johnny playing with himself, advising him that it could make him go blind, then caught him the next day doing it, Johnny explained, "It's so fun I'll just do it till I need glasses, then I'll quit."

sarah peralta's avatar

Spot on. Why would it not be the same as any other negative symptom of a poor diet and lifestyle, when we act in ways contrary to the intelligent design⁸? Something I've come to understand is ferility and sexuality is really about our life force energy which can be farmed and drained from us in many ways. The millenial generation for example was brainwashed into believing equality of the sexes meant a high powered job, eating corporate slop bowls too busy to cook, and casual drunken hookups with someone you met at a bar. Turns out it was a perfect storm fast-track to hell and disease. I remember seeing "medical" articles encouraging sex daily or multiple times a day with your partner for bonding and longevity. Then they pushed the STD testing and vaccines, nevermind changing the poor lifestyle choices, just inject and keep on! Birth control was handed out like candy. I may have been the only woman I know who never took it. It all turned it into a cheap low stakes performance with a temporary "high" that leads to misery and completley drains the person over time til there's nothing left. The real problem isn't "aging" or "not enough sex" it is our acquiescence to immorality. Modern culture driven by those in control who hate us has sucked any meaning or purpose out of us and gave us fleeting meaningless instant gratification. It is a very sad situation to see some of my childhood friends single, childless, in debt and unhealthy, all because they followed the rules and did everything "right". Nothing dries a woman up faster than approaching middle age in a shitty demanding job she can't leave because she needs the money and without children and a husband to give her purpose, stability and meaning.

Steve  Mitzner's avatar

Lucifer used " Intelligent design" in his war on God, and Adam & Eve, getting them to question God, selling them on beeing a god! All to bring the wages of sin and death to Paradice! Lucifer, promoting Satan's Hell, worked in the beginning, just as it works today, causing the chaos needed to bring enmity between men and women, break up the home, promote chaos of hook-up sex, drugs, addiction, homelessness, and crime as we see today! Satan must be very proud of his work! I thank Jesus for what he did for you and me, so all this Hell & chaos can't hurt his people, but it's very sad!